Do you have an old photo that means a lot to you? What unforgettable people or events are behind the photo?
Yes.
The photo is from when I was a child, and my grandfather was a bit younger. Because of writing these words, I have

Looking at this photo, I found that grandpa's hair was still black at that time.
I found that by his side, I was not like his grandson, but more like his wife. The time with Grandpa was safe, rich, and romantic.
There is a cabinet behind grandpa, and inside the cabinet are the snacks he bought for me. Grandpa never told me not to eat too many snacks; he just told me that the food he cooks is also very fragrant.
There is a TV remote on the table. Grandpa always wraps the remote in a transparent plastic film because he is afraid it might get wet. When I was a child, I accidentally spilled water on the remote, but he didn’t scold me; he just quietly wrapped it up.
Behind Grandpa and me, there is a small window that leads to Grandpa's yard. In winter, the yard is full of snow, and in summer, it is full of bugs. Back then, the yard was all mine.
Published on 2024-02-04 13:09・IP Location: Beijing
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The first egg laid by the Guifei chickens raised at home during childhood.
Later, the hen jumped down from the balcony and was nowhere to be found. The rooster wandered around the yard for a few days, then came back and refused to eat or drink. A week later, he died of starvation..
I will never forget the scorching summer day when I was by his side in the flower bed downstairs, holding water to his lips. He gently pecked my hand and closed his eyes..
He looks really impressive, very tall, with a comb that sticks out like a starfish. No chicken in the yard can match him in a fight. He can fly from one building to another, and my father was afraid he would fly around recklessly on the rooftops of tall buildings, so he clipped his wings. But even so, we often see him on the rooftops of the low buildings in the yard, strutting around proudly.
At the time of dismissal, shouting his name, he would jump down from the low building, sometimes directly onto my shoulder, and I was really proud, showing off to my companions that I had a gyrfalcon.
He has a very short temper, and will peck at strangers or animals, able to peck off a piece of flesh. But at the same time, he is very gentle; he has never pecked the little hen that grew up with him. The little hen has a completely opposite personality, very timid. When someone comes to the hallway, he will spread his wings to protect the little hen, from when they were young until now.
My younger brother was about one or two years old at that time, just learning to walk. I often pulled him by the feathers on his neck and rode on him, but he never got angry. However, as long as he was around, he would never let my younger brother touch that little hen.
I was not old enough back then to understand why he didn't eat or drink... That must have been so uncomfortable..
But I sat next to him, seeing the mighty guy who was usually so impressive lying on the ground with ants and flies crawling all over him... I felt very sad... I didn't even dare to cry
I dare not speak in a loud voice, for fear of startling the people in their dreams..
I got up and left, tears streaming down my face..
The rooster is called Xiao Ru, the hen is called Xiao Yi... Alas, life is full of unforeseen circumstances... Things do not go as one wishes..
Do you have an old photo that means a lot to you? What unforgettable people or events are behind the photo? I found that you are secretly wanting to 'know' someone else's secrets, but I have no 'evidence'. Good friend, enjoy Zhihu, thank you for the invitation!
曾经有一张,我自己在意的人的照片
讲真,实话实说,此事说来话长,那我就长话短说。谁的心里,还没有一些难以让人忘记的人,或者是我也是同样如此。
曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云。正如小说作家三毛所说,感情的事就像佛家的禅,不可说,不可说,一说即破。
读书的年纪,心思没有百分百用到学习
那时候还很小,不太懂事,在读书的年纪,没有把心思,全部都用在读书的上面。
反而,有一些朦朦胧胧的心理,就放任自己放肆那么一回。在家长不知情的前提之下,悄悄把喜欢的人。喜欢的事,写进自己的日记里面。
其中也包括一些照片,包括彼此的留言册。以为把它放着就是对对方的一种思念,一种寄托,一种激励。来不及的暗恋,还没开始,就结束了。
门当户对,千百年来亘古不变的真理
讲真,实话实说,门第观念,并不是从现在开始的,多年以来一直都是这样。其中包括我自己,也是当事人。
因为,爸爸妈妈是不会接受。比咱们家高许多许多倍,财富以及家庭地位的人。因为,他们觉得那样的人,不懂得珍惜普通平民的子女。
我也曾经旁敲侧击问问,自己家长的意思,也问过我自己在意的人。他的意思,他们对这一条特别特别的在意。
没有结果的事情,我不会再付出!
讲真,虽然我是天秤座,也比较感情用事。但是我理智会克制我自己,没有可能的事情,我不会再付出。
知道没有结果的前提,那么我就不会飞蛾扑火,我就自我断了自己的思念。后来日记本也烧了,也不再写日记了。
也是,我自己心里面一道过不去的坎。所以,感情的事情还是不要去想。追星,追动漫,会让自己过得更加幸福一点,而且,我也乐此不疲。
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